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Created on 2009-06-18 02:19:13 (#408582), last updated 2010-02-28 (394 weeks ago)

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Birthdate:Dec 17
Location:roma, Italy
Website:inevitable stardom
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Important Tips For Knowing Me, Compliments of Baron and Wagele

Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them.

How to Get Along with Me:

  • If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure.
  • I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advatage of this.
  • Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.
  • Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge me gently and nonjudgmentally.
  • Ask me questions to help me get clear.
  • Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.
  • Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.
  • I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
  • Let me know you like what I've done or said.
  • Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.

What I Like About Being a Nine:

  • Being nonjudgmental and accepting.
  • Caring for and being concerned about others.
  • Being able to relax and have a good time.
  • Knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around.
  • My ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator.
  • My heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now.
  • Being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe.

What's Hard About Being a Nine:

  • Being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive.
  • Being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline.
  • Being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally.
  • Being confused about what I really want.
  • Caring too much about what others will think of me.
  • Not being listened to or taken seriously.

Nines as Children Often . . .

  • Feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant.
  • Tune out a lot, especially when others argue.
  • Are "good" children: deny anger or keep it to themselves.

Nines as Parents . . .

  • Are supportive, kind, and warm.
  • Are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective.

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The me-stuff in this journal is, for various reasons that I will (obviously) not go into out in public on my user info page, friends only. If you're just here for fic, don't bother friending: all story posts are public. Always. If you want to read anything else, I need to friend you. If you want this to happen, you can just friend me and hope that I notice, but it's generally a better idea to go to this unprotected post and leave a comment so that I know who you are and what you're about. You can also email me or hit me up on AIM or Yahoo or something, although the screennames I'm on most often are super sekrit and only available to -- you guessed it -- people who I've friended. It's a vicious cycle, I know.

(If I have friended you, there are friends-only guides to knowing me for new friends here and here. Keep in mind, they may be a tad dated.)
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